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Eccl. 7:2

Benefits of the House of Mourning

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Pastor Albert N. Martin expounds Ecclesiastes 7:2, arguing that it is better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of feasting because the former reminds us of our inevitable end and should prod us to prepare for it. He asserts that humans are naturally averse to sober thoughts about death and judgment, and anything that jars us to serious attention on these matters is ultimately our friend. Conversely, anything that neutralizes such serious thoughts is a mortal enemy to be resisted, especially for unbelievers who need to repent and believe the gospel.

Primary Texts

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Ecclesiastes 7:2 This verse is the primary text, expounded in detail to explain why the house of mourning is better than the house of feasting.

Outline 9 sections · 55 min

  1. Introduction and Prayer for Unction 0:01
  2. Context and Textual Introduction 2:41
  3. The Comparison: House of Mourning vs. House of Feasting 5:51
  4. Explanation Part 1: Death is the End of All Men 13:50
  5. Explanation Part 2: The Living Will Lay it to Heart 19:34
  6. Principle 1: Natural Aversion to Sober Thoughts 27:02
  7. Principle 2: Anything Jarring Us to Serious Attention is Our Friend 30:56
  8. Principle 3: Resist Neutralizers of Serious Thought as Mortal Enemies 38:56
  9. Joyful Christianity and Final Exhortation 48:36

Key Quotes

“The writer of Ecclesiastes declares, it is better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of, for that is the end of all men and the living will lay it to his heart.”
“It's better to go to the house of mourning than the house to feasting because our presence at a house of mourning reminds us forcefully of our own inevitable end.”
“Our presence at a house of mourning should product prepare for our essence at a house of mourning should product to his heart.”
“Every graven stone is god's eloquent thunderous exposing the devil for what he is a liar and the father of it.”
“Anything that jars us to serious and concentrated attention to the issues surrounding death is ultimately our friend.”
“Anything or any person which neutralizes the possibility of serious thoughts about death and judgment, heaven and hell, should be resisted as our mortal enemy.”
“In a real sense, the only person who has any right to be in the house of feasting is one who's learned the lesson of the house of mourning isn't that right because you see our feasting is not to neutralize and to stop the voice of conscience”
“Oh, lay it to heart. Think soberly enough to get desperate to be in Christ and desperate to be in Christ.”

Applications

Parents & families

  • Change a very fundamental pattern: congregating with other giddy young people after every service to talk giddy talk about giddy things and have no sober thoughts about what you heard in the preaching.
  • Don't let peer pressure neutralize the pressure of the word of God for if you're ever to be saved you'll be saved not until then.

All listeners

  • If you refuse to think serious thoughts about God, about death, and about judgment, you are refusing the very first steps to salvation.
  • Oh, that we could somehow by force go into all the homes and all the bars and drag everyone out, make them stand open grave and watch a body, Lord, hear the sobs of loved ones and say, You too shall be lowered, my friend, and your soul will have made its flight to go out into... into a fixed state of eternal bliss or eternal misery.
  • Anything or any person that neutralizes the possibility of my going to the house of mourning, that neutralizes the possibility of my thinking serious thoughts about God, and sin, and heaven, and hell, and this, that, and it's pointed application that gets me in trouble, but I love your soul enough to go after it in hand-to-hand wrestling.
  • Instead of going home and engaging in light conversation, watching the news, and turning your bedroom into a house of feasting, go home, shut yourself alone, take out your Bible, and reflect on the text that impressed your spirit.
  • Relinquish some of the toys that you've gathered around you as a grown adult, hobbies and pursuits that demand so much time and make you feel so good, put you out of touch with the sobering realities of death and of judgment.
  • Sever a very dear relationship if that person stands between you and Christ, because if Christ does not stand with you in the last day to vindicate you and plead your cause you've had it you've had it and you've had it for eternity.
  • Go there tonight. Get alone and get quiet and picture in your mind's eye the slab on which you'll be laid, the coffin in which you'll be laid out, to which you will be placed, and then think of that soul, that never-dying immortal, that world from which there is no return, eternal torment, eternal joy, awaiting the day of resurrection.
  • Lay it to heart. Think soberly enough to get desperate to be in Christ and desperate to be in Christ. Rest not until you know, that you are in Him. Repent, believe the gospel, throw the weight of your guilty, vulnerable soul upon Him who is mighty to save, and find His promise true to you.
  • Amidst the pressures of daily responsibility, we so seldom reflect on the brevity of life. So teach us to number our days that we may get us a heart of wisdom.

A full transcript is available on the tab. 74 paragraphs, roughly 55 minutes.

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