Proverbs 4:23
His Heart
In "His Heart," Pastor Albert N. Martin continues his series on the anatomy of a man of God, focusing on the heart as the center of one's being. Expounding on Proverbs 4:23, 2 Kings 22, and 1 Samuel 24 alongside 2 Samuel 11, he argues that a man of God must possess a constantly guarded heart, a continually tender heart, and an increasingly loving, responsive, and vulnerable heart. Martin warns against the hardening effect of unmortified sin, using David's fall as a stark example, and calls all believers, especially those in ministry, to diligent self-examination and prayer for these vital spiritual graces.
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Outline 8 sections · 71 min
- Introduction: The Heart as Key to the Mouth 0:00
- Defining the Heart: The Center of Our Being 14:03
- Characteristic 1: A Constantly Guarded Heart 17:46
- Characteristic 2: A Continually Tender Heart 33:00
- The Cautionary Tale of David's Hardened Heart 42:30
- The Peril of Resisting the 'Smite' and the Weariness of Tenderness 56:54
- Characteristic 3: An Increasingly Loving, Responsive, and Vulnerable Heart 62:49
- Call to Prayer and Warning to the Unconverted 66:38
Key Quotes
“The Scripture names the heart as the intellectual soul center of man in its concrete central unity, its dynamic activity, and its ethical determination...”
“Your life, my son, in all of its various streams has one common source, and that is the state and condition of your heart. Therefore, above all that you guard, guard your heart.”
“What's the great work in conversion without which there isn't no true conversion it's to win the heart for god and the great work of conversion is to win the heart for god and what's the great work of the christian life it's to keep the heart with god”
“A heart that doesn't need to have the word read. Expounded. Thundered. Illustrated. It just needs to hear the word of God. And it responds.”
“Folks I didn't write this. And that ain't written. So you and I can throw stones at David. It's written. First Corinthians 10. For our admonition. Let him that thinks he stand. Take heed. Lest he fall.”
“And if it doesn't flow out of love. God says. It's like clanging on a. Top of a garbage can. That's what God says.”
“Sin is that ugly moral commodity that is an affront to God's holiness that caused the incarnate God to waltz in his own blood and be anointed in the sea of God's wrath. And you're going to call it a little thing?”
Applications
Believers
- Pray fervently and regularly for the men in the academy, asking God to give them strength, grace, and commitment to have a constantly guarded heart.
- Pray for your elders to have continually tender hearts, even if it means they will step on your sins.
Pastors & those called to ministry
- Settle it before God to have a constantly guarded heart, learning the discipline of tracking down and vaporizing recipient confidence, lust, ambition, and envy.
- Do not indulge fleeting sexual fantasies or unmortified ambition, as they may rise up and destroy you years later.
- Cry to God to give you a well-guarded, constantly kept, continually sensitive, and love-suffused, vulnerable, and self-giving heart.
All listeners
- Keep a biblical standard before the minds of the men in the academy, constantly etching the vision of their ultimate purpose.
- Set before newer members a biblical basis for the ministerial academy and what their brothers and sisters are excited and prayerful about.
- Stir up the pure minds by way of remembrance for long-standing members, maintaining and intensifying vision and excitement for the academy.
- The greatest struggles in ministry will be internal, in the heart, and will persist even in blessed seasons.
- Guard your own heart if you are to pray effectively for others to guard theirs.
- A man of God must have a tender heart to keep a conscience void of offense, avoid hypocrisy, and preach with authority into others' consciences.
- If you are not ready for a lifetime of ruthlessly dealing with your heart to keep it tender, bail out of ministry preparation.
- If David, with all his privileges, could fall so low, what will happen to you if you play with sin?
- Keeping a tender heart is wearisome; do not be naive to think struggles diminish with age.
- Read 1 Corinthians 13 periodically; without love, all gifts and ministry are nothing.
- You will never stay in the ministry unless you have an increasingly loving, responsive, and vulnerable heart.
- Every Christian should have a heart like this.
- If you dismiss sin as 'little piddling things,' you are lost as the devil because you have never seen your sin in the light of God's holiness and the cross of Christ.
- Flee to Christ; ask Him to give you eyes to see your sin and what He has done for needy sinners.
- Pray for God to give this generation an army of true men of God with the described head, eyes, ears, and heart.
- Do not pillow your heads tonight until you've had dealings with God in the light of His word.
- Pray for God to give every man in the academy this kind of heart, by whatever secret discipline or path of suffering He chooses.
A full transcript is available on the tab. 220 paragraphs, roughly 71 minutes.
Introduction: The Heart as Key to the Mouth
This sermon was preached on Sunday evening, September 25th, 1988, at the Trinity Baptist Church in Montville, New Jersey. Those of you who were with us in the previous hour, unless you sat in the auditorium of phase one, in a state in which you are grievously quenching the Holy Spirit in your own life, could not help but be conscious that God was speaking to us, that God was underscoring afresh the great and awesome privilege that is ours to be surrounded with gospel light and a plenitude of Christ's gifts to his church. And I frankly find it very difficult after a season such as that season when our brother Martinez spoke to us to wrench all of the evidence. The energy of the soul and the emotions of the heart, and to pull them in another direction. And if you were not there for that previous hour, may I urge you, please, as soon as it's available, to get the tape of that hour, and though it will not fully capture that dimension
of the Lord's presence in the midst of his gathered people, obtain it and listen to it with the prayer that God would speak to you and draw out your heart with fresh and intense prayer. I have been in large concerns for the work of the gospel in the Philippines. However, in the providence of God, we come in the ministry of the word in this hour to continue our consideration of what I have chosen to call a study in the anatomy of a man of God. Two Lord's Days ago, in conjunction with our annual Academy Night, I began this brief series of studies.
And the rationale for considering this subject is quite simple. Since God has given to us as a congregation the great privilege and awesome responsibility of carrying on in this assembly a four-year program of ministerial training, it is vital that three concerns should constantly be brought before you as the people of God in conjunction with the Lord. First of all, we need to keep a biblical standard before the minds of the men who are in the academy. What is the great end of all of their involvement in the life of the academy and in the life of the church? That vision must constantly be etched in their minds. We must set before the newer members who come amongst us as God adds to our numbers
a biblical basis for this ministry of the academy and what it is that their brothers and sisters are hopefully excited and prayerful about as they begin to be aware that within the life of this church there is such a thing as God. This is a very significant study. thing as the trinity ministerial academy and then thirdly it is vital in the language of peter to stir up the pure minds by way of remembrance of those of you who are long-standing members of in this church for it is relatively easy to have vision and excitement and commitment on the threshold of any new endeavor but it is only by a strict spiritual discipline that that vision and excitement can not only be maintained over the long haul but be increased and intensified by the power of god so in pursuit of these concerns we are considering those spiritual graces and character traits and also those gifts of the spirit which you you the basic spiritual anatomy of a man of god by the use of the term a man of god i mean one who is
made by christ into an able minister of the new covenant and in our two previous studies we have examined the anatomy as it pertains to the head of a man of god the eyes of a man of god and the ears of a man of god and the ears of a man of god and the ears of a man of god and the ears of a man of of a man of god now this morning we shall proceed to examine his heart now this morning we shall proceed to examine his heart and then god willing next lord's day his mouth now becoming a Certain for whatever night if a woman Fac sounding conceivable boşalt b tightened now over these four steps within a woman that went through at imajor and reappesance v reads Wine Ketops Lewis Iron by usar mental female 等 or on in another the on his fourth and eyes or lefos then his achievements Were we to do, as I originally suggested, move from the top of his head to his feet, we would move from his head, his eyes, his ears, to his mouth, and then to the heart. But to stick to that order would be to fly in the face of a very clearly established biblical truth, namely, that the heart is the key to what happens in the mouth. And so I ask you, by way of introduction, to look at two passages in the Old Testament with me, and then two in the New.
First of all, Proverbs 16. And verse 23. We are seeking simply to establish the intimate connection between the heart and the mouth, and the propriety of addressing, first of all, the heart, and then the mouth. In Proverbs 16 and verse 23, the wise man Solomon, writing by the inspiration of the Spirit, informs us that the heart of the wise, instructs his mouth and adds learning to his lips.
It is the heart of the wise that gives instruction to his mouth, and it is the state of the heart that renders the learning for his lips that becomes a means of edification. You see the same emphasis in Psalm 37. Verses 30 and 31. Psalm 37, verses 30 and 31.
The mouth of the righteous talks of wisdom, and his tongue speaks justice. Well, why is it that the mouth of the righteous talks of wisdom, and his tongue speaks justice? Well, the answer is, given in verse 31, the law of God is in his heart. None of his steps shall slide.
What happens in the realm of the mouth of the righteous is but a revelation of the unseen but real state of his heart. And it is because the law of God is in the heart of the righteous that the mouth of the righteous speaks of wisdom. And now two equally clear texts in the New Testament. First of all, Matthew chapter 12 and verse 34b.
In a context in which our Lord is exposing the shallowness and the hypocritical nature of the religion of the Pharisees, our Lord says in Matthew 12 and verse 34b, For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. The mouth is but the revelation of the overflow of the heart. Out of the abundance or the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks. And in a parallel passage, just turn over to Matthew 15 and verse 18,
But the things which proceed out of the mouth come forth, out of the heart. And here our Lord states in language that is not at all figurative. It is straightforward instruction telling us that the things that proceed out of the mouth come forth out of the heart. And then in that well-known passage concerning what we would call the way in which sinners are saved in the psychology, of conversion, Romans 10 verses 9 and 10.
Here there is such a close conjunction between the true state of the heart and the mouth, that the activity of the mouth is said to be integral in any true conversion experience. In Romans chapter 10 verses 9 and 10 we read as follows, Because if you, you shall confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and shall believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, you shall be saved. For with the heart man believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. And here the apostle makes it plain that apart from the truth, apart from those instances where a man might be mute and unable to articulate words, so intimate is the conjunction between the heart and the mouth, that wherever there is true faith in the heart, there will be the expression of that faith by the verbal confession of Jesus Christ as Lord, most likely a reference to that formal public confession of the Lord, and the fellowship of Christ,
made in the institution of God's own will and choice, the institution of baptism, more of which you will hear God willing, concerning which more you will hear God willing this evening. Well, I need not weary you with more text, but surely these suffice to anyone sensitive to the authority of Holy Scripture that there is indeed this very intimate connection between the heart and the mouth, and the mouth confession of Jesus Christ as Lord, and the heart and the mouth confession of Jesus Christ as Lord, between the heart and the mouth, the mouth and the heart, and in terms of order, it is the condition of the heart that is revealed in the activity of the mouth. Now, granted, I'm fully aware of what the Bible teaches concerning the hypocrite. In the case of the hypocrite, his mouth is a calculated effort to cloak the true state of his heart. We find that articulated in a passage I read, in the last Lord's Day, in Ezekiel 33, 31. For in that passage it says, with their mouth they speak fair, but their heart goes after their idols or after covetousness.
And again, in Mark 7, in verse 6, Jesus said, this people draws near to me with their mouth, but their heart is far from me. So the Bible does not say that the mouth is always an accurate reflection of the heart. No. In the case of the hypocrite, the mouth is a deceptive reflection of the state of the heart.
But you see, we're studying the anatomy of a man of God, not a hypocrite, not a harley, not one of those spoken of in 2 Corinthians 2 who make merchandise of the word of God, who talk of Christ and religion and salvation and the blood and conversion and the Holy Spirit, only to cloak the foul, wretched, base and devilish demons of ambition and lechery and pride and personal aggrandizement. But in the natural state of things, where hypocrisy has not entered in or physical limitations have not cut short the connection, the Bible clearly indicates that a man's mouth is the echo chamber of his heart. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. The good man, out of the good treasure of his heart, brings forth good things. And in a very real sense, is this nowhere more true than in the case of a man of God.
Defining the Heart: The Center of Our Being
His mouth is the audible echo chamber of the silent state and condition of his heart. Or to change the imagery, his mouth is the visible pool that is fed by the invisible springs that flow out of his heart. Well, having established, I trust, to the satisfaction of every fair-minded man or woman, boy and girl, that it is right to connect the heart and the mouth and to consider first of all the heart, as that which is echoed in the mouth, let us address this morning this subject, the anatomy of the heart of a man of God. Now when I use the term heart, in what sense am I using it? In what sense are we analyzing the heart of a man of God? I know of no better answer to that question than the one I found in my preparation in an Old Testament commentator writing on one of the texts we shall consider, and this is what he writes concerning what the Bible means when it speaks of the heart.
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so that from this spring of life may go forth not mere suffering, seeming life and a caricature of life, but a true life, well-pleasing unto God. To summarize the words of this commentator, the heart is the seat and the source of our thinking, of our willing, of our choosing. It is the very center of our being. And therefore it is vital that we examine from the word of God the understanding of the heart as the center of our being.
And therefore it is vital that we examine from the word of God the understanding of the heart as the center of our being. The anatomy of the heart of a man of God. If we could dissect that element in a man of God which constitutes His heart. If we could analyze if we could project its condition into visual images, what would we find that heart to be?
Characteristic 1: A Constantly Guarded Heart
Well, in the time allotted let me suggest three things this morning. We would find first of all that it is a constantly guarding process. heart. If we could visually conceptualize the condition of the heart of a man of God, we would find it a heart that is constantly surrounded with alert sentries. We would find it a heart constantly set about by armed guards, jealously guarding every inlet to its being. And here the pivotal text is Proverbs 4 and verse 23. Proverbs 4 and verse 23. Why do I say that the heart of a man of God will be first of all a constantly guarded heart?
Because of the truth of this text, keep thy heart with all diligence or as the marginal reading says, keep thy heart with all diligence. The writing in the 1901 renders it, above all that you guard, for out of it are the issues of life. Now there are many things, according to Solomon, that are worth being guarded as a precious commodity. How carefully you parents guard your children, and rightly so. To fail to do so is to come under the indictment of scripture without natural authority. How carefully we guard our own physical well-being. Let someone or something threaten our well-being, and we immediately spring to the defense, not only of our children, but our own physical well-being. And there are many things that are worth guarding. But now Solomon says to his son,
guard your heart with all diligence or above everything. For it alone has this unique function. Out of it are the issues of life. Your life, my son, in all of its various streams has one common source, and that is the state and condition of your heart. Therefore, above all that you guard, guard your heart.
And if that is true for every single Christian, regardless of his station in life, how much more is it true of the man of God, when he believes all the final temptations however the primary steps, which are all part of the generation's mission, and those beans need to suffer as a servant each one of himself? Well then Israel, overwhelmed and in monster walking, do wy Across all his rest 정sed we draws upon him 부�uching look upon his heart as a garden that like the garden in his backyard will of itself without any effort on his part become nothing but a weed bed unless it is constant carefully guarded pulling out the frations of the weeds of pride the weeds of secret sin and carpition secret lost and envy and covetousness bitterness and unforgiveness and resentment and a host of other sins which he is not only subject as an imperfectly sanctified saint but
to which his position in the work of the ministry makes him more for he pours earn but the good of his people only to only to have his motives malign vulnerable to the sin of bitterness and unforgiveness in a way that the ordinary christian may not be because much of his life is a life alone in the privacy of his study where his mind is not drawn to the labor of his hands but where his labor is carried on in the workshop of his mind how much more vulnerable is he to rising with grandiose thoughts of himself or with lecherous thoughts that are hidden upon the world walls of his memory by the activity of the prince darkness who will come to a play and to afflict him even when he's pouring over his bible you see the heart of a man of god if he be a man of god must of necessity be a constantly guarded heart for the moment he ceases to guard his heart under the imagery of the garden that is not the garden that is not the garden that is not the garden that is not the garden that is not
weeded that heart that will choke out plantings of god and perhaps worst of all that discipline and privilege which is the very essence of his strength psalm 66 18 if i regard equity in my heart the lord not hear me and when a man of god has says to the throne of god there to wrestle with god there there have five little intimate real there take out of the stories of god's grace and wisdom and power once asked to the throne is impeded by sin regarded as but a cumber of the man of god but who ceased to be a man of god the moment he regarded iniquity in his heart
mark it down and never forget it you men preparing for the ministry the greatest struggles you will ever have to face in your life will be the greatest struggles you will ever have to face in your life will be the greatest struggles you will ever have to face in your life the first in the ministry struggles that will per susans of baron in your most blessed season will be the struggles
qualification ministry reflecting upon this text in proverbs four twenty-three and looking backwards of ministry my mind went back to the spring of nineteen fifty-six when a twenty-one year old senior at a bible college in the southern part of our country had to preach his senior chapel sermon sermon. One of the requirements of the Bible college that I attended and from which I graduated was that every senior student somewhere in the course of his last year would preach at one of the chapel services. And as I prayed and sought the face of God, Lord, what shall I say first of all to myself and then to my fellow students? What is the note that needs most desperately to be sounded? You know what text I preached on that morning? More
than 32 years ago? Proverbs 4.23. Keep thy heart above all that thou guardest, for out of it are the issues of life. And among the things I said that morning are some of the very things I've said today. I said them then in prospect, not knowing what years God would give me to minister, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I said them in prospect, not knowing not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I said them in prospect, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I
said them in prospect, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I said them in prospect, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I said them in prospect, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I said them in prospect, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter of time. I said them in prospect, not knowing what the circumstances would be, but I did assert that the experience or form of God was not a matter and come to a sense that there was but one way for the blessing of God upon my life and my ministry, and that was to have a constantly guarded heart.
Thirty-two years later, dear people, I have to say, little did you know, young man,
but I have no occasion to regret that I preached on that text. For the thirty-two years have simply confirmed me in the conviction that it is here that the battle is won or is lost.
And so I say to you men in the academy, settle it before God if you would be a man of God. This part of your anatomy must be one of great concern, your heart, and it must be a constantly guarded heart, not out there sometime in the future, but here and now. You must learn. You must learn the discipline of tracking down recipient confidence and lost and ambition and envy of your brethren's gifts.
Drag them out into the light of God's power before the cross and vaporize before the power of His blood and the purifying influence of His Spirit. What you indulge now may rise up and slay you twenty years from now. Market man in the academy. You may indulge fleeting sexual fantasies and know that those but market if twenty it will be because you didn't heed what you heard this morning. Market! Who's got that unmortified ambition, that horrible ambition you want to be somebody.
You know it's there, but oh, you seem so humble and so laid back and so non-assertive, but God knows and you know. But that ambition is there.
Market! Someday you'll sell the truth for the sake of your reputation. You'll sell grandpa for a name because you didn't heed what you heard this morning.
Guard your heart above all that you guard And I say to you people in the congregation as you pray for these men and I know many of you pray for them fervently and regularly, oh as you pray God give them strength and grace for your faith. Give them strength and grace for Jesus Christ. Oh, and Zhang Yan Можно, who I believe is just like your Ng Pueri and just glorious young husband, grace to apply themselves to their studies give them grace and strength to be good husbands and good fathers oh dear people cry to god that god will make these men those who are committed to have a constantly guarded heart and then i say to you who sit here with no thoughts of the ministry how can you pray that someone else will guard his heart if you're not guarding your own if you're not acquainted with the fact that this is the area there's one or loss and you pray for others one of the old writers said that the greatest work in conversion is to win the heart
to god and the greatest work of the christian life is to keep the heart with god the old man knew his bible and knew his own heart what's the great work in conversion without which there isn't no true conversion it's to win the heart for god it's no big deal to get people to make decisions and pray the prayer and raise a hand and walk an aisle or absorb the climate of their christian home and language and parrot the talk but to have this heart that nothing but a birth from above a resurrection from the dead an intrusion of divine and gracious disruption upon the human spirit can ever affect that's the great work of conversion is to win the heart for god and the great work of conversion is to win the heart for god and what's the great work of the christian life it's to keep the heart with god that's why john
Characteristic 2: A Continually Tender Heart
closed his first epistle by saying my little children guard yourselves from idols guard yourselves from idols for an idol is any person or that would take my heart from single focused devotion to the lord jesus and the holy spirit and the holy spirit and the holy spirit and the holy spirit jesus christ well i must hasten to the second characteristic of the heart of a man of god if we could dissect it and analyze it we would find it not only to be a constantly guarded heart but we would find it to be a continually tender heart a continuously tender heart the bible speaks of a hard heart it speaks of a slow and unresponsive heart it speaks of an evil heart of unbelief and in these descriptions various issues are at stake you remember with pharaoh and his hard heart the issue at stake was he would not respond to the voice of god or submit to the judgments of god every time he heard the voice of god and saw the judgments of god
scripture says he hardened his heart that is he resisted the natural flow that voice and that judgment which would have been to cause him to release God's people and then our Lord in Luke 24 said O fools and slow of heart to believe all the prophets have written a foolish and a slow heart is one that is sluggish in laying hold of all that God has said and rejoicing in it but now a tender heart has a peculiar reference to a man's sensitivity to sin and follow closely now the immediacy of his response to the first awareness of that sin and it is upon that aspect that I want to focus this morning because it has peculiar reference to a man of God and I want you to turn to 2 Kings chapter 22 for a living picture of a tender heart and it's in this context that that very terminology is found 2 Kings chapter 22 we read in verse 1
Josiah was eight years old when he began to reign and he reigned thirty and one years in Jerusalem and his mother's name was Jedidah the daughter of Adiah of Bozkoth and he did that which was right in the eyes of the Lord and walked in all the way of David his father and turned not aside to the right hand or to the left then in the next paragraph we read what happened in the area the restoration of concern for the house of God for the temple and now in verse 8 and Hilkiah the high priest said to Shaphan the scribe I found the book of the law in the house of the Lord and Hilkiah delivered the book to Shaphan to read it and Shaphan the scribe the scribe came to the king and brought the king word again and said, your servants have emptied out the money that was found in the house and have delivered it into the hand of the workmen that have the oversight of the house of the Lord. And Shaphan, the scribe told the king saying, Hilkiah, the priest has delivered me a book and Shaphan read it before the king. Now notice God's word is simply being read in the ears of the king. The law of God, the word of God,
the book of the law has been rediscovered and now it's read in the ears of King Josiah. And notice what happens. And it came to pass when the kings of the book of the law, that he rent his clothes and the king commanded Hilkiah, the priest and Ahikam, the son of Shaphan, and Achbor, the son of Micaiah and Shaphan, the scribe and Asaiah, the king's servant saying, go and inquire of the Lord for me and for the people and for all Judah concerning the words of this book that is found for great is the wrath of the Lord that is kindled against us because our fathers have not hearkened unto the words of this book to do according unto all that is written concerning us. Now pause for a moment and follow.
The book of the law has been discovered. It is simply read in the hearing of the king. The moment he hears it, his heart is so sad as he identifies with the sin of his people that he of inward humiliation. And he is concerned that this book and what it contains be known among God's people. And then we read God's assessment of this response. He says in verses 14 and following, The nation has been destroyed. Gone beyond my showing mercy. Wrath must indeed fall. The captivity will come. But now verse 18,
But unto the king of Judah who sent you to inquire of the Lord, thus shall you say unto him, Thus saith the Lord, the God of Israel, as touching the words which you have heard, because heart was. And you did humble yourself. Before. For the Lord, when you heard what I spoke against this place and against the inhabitants thereof, then God goes on to say as a result of it, the judgment will not come in his day, but in the days of his successors. But now I want you to focus upon God's assessment of what lay at the root of this immeasuring of the book of the law. He says, Because your heart. Was tender.
And the indication his heart was tender was this. You humbled yourself when you heard. That's all he needed. He just needed to have his heart become conscious of the discrepancy between what God said and where he.
That's a tender heart. A heart that doesn't need to have the word read. Expounded. Thundered.
Illustrated. It just needs to hear the word of God. And it responds. It doesn't need to have the word heard.
And resisted. And resisted. And then have stroke. Until finally the person says, Oh God.
I capitulate. You are mightier than I know. A tender. That the moment it feels the slightest strike of its chambers.
It responds. In humbling. In humbling itself before God. Now that's a tender heart.
And a tender heart is a commodity which a man of God must have. He must have. If he himself is to keep a conscience void of offense to God. If he is to do anything other than preach himself into the condition of being the worst hypocrite in the world.
If he is to dive with authority. And with incisiveness into the consciences of others. He must first of all have known what it is to dive into his own conscience. With the light of God's word striking all the dark places.
And revealing anything that is displeasing unto God. That's a tender heart. And the frightening thing is. The frightening thing.
May God help me to somehow convey it. Is that a man may have a tender heart. At one point in his life. And so lose that tenderness.
That he can be marked by a hardness of heart. That is nothing short of shocking. And indescribable. And now I want us to look at such an incident.
The Cautionary Tale of David's Hardened Heart
In the Old Testament. Turn back to 1 Samuel 24. We're going to see a tender heart. In a young man.
Named David. He's already been marked out. Through the ministry of the prophet Samuel. As the next king of Israel.
But Saul in his envy and jealousy. Is chasing around the wilderness of Judea. Like he were some kind of an outlaw. Or some kind of an insurgent.
The head of some kind of gorilla force. And in the midst of that horrible envy. And jealous passion. Driving him to chase David.
We have an incident. We have an incident recorded. In chapter 24 of 1 Samuel. That shows the state of David's heart.
At this time in his life. It came to pass. When Saul was returned from following the Philistines. That it was told him saying.
Behold. David is in the wilderness of En Gedi. Then Saul took three thousand chosen men. Out of all Israel.
And went to seek David and his men. Upon the rocks of the wild goats. And he came to the sheep coats. By the way.
Where was a cave. And Saul went in. To cover his feet. A euphemism.
To relieve himself. Now David and his men were abiding. In the innermost parts of the cave. And the men of David said unto him.
Behold. The day of which the Lord said unto you. Behold I will deliver your enemy into your hand. And you shall do to him as it seems good unto you.
You see what his men were saying. And you trace out the sacred record. There is no record of any such oracle. Ever being delivered by a prophet.
Now whether a prophet had delivered that oracle. And it's not recorded. We don't know. But David's men come to him and said.
Look. The word of promise. Either one they made up. By inference.
That God had already clearly marked him out. By the anointing which took place at the hand of Saul. Or by an unrecorded prophecy. And the scripture is silent.
And so we must not be dogmatic. But they seek to encourage David. Said look at the providence of God. Your enemy is delivered into your hand.
Right now David. God's put him in your hand. You can slay him. And take the throne.
And apparently the thought at first. Took root in David. And so what did David do? And David arose.
And apparently tempted. If nothing more than to show up Saul. And maybe the seeds of murdering Saul. Were still unchecked in his heart.
We can't tell. David arose and cut off the skirt of Saul's robe. Privilege. So mighty and skillful a warrior was David.
He was able to sneak up close enough. To the place where Paul. Saul had laid his outer cloak. And cut off a piece of that garment.
But now notice what happens. Verse 5. And it came to pass afterward. That David's heart smote him.
Because he had cut off Saul's skirt. He had even done a deed. Which at its worst. Could have been an expression.
Of just the little seeds. upon his life. Or could have been at the least. An attempt to show him up.
And stick it to him. But it says his heart smote him. Verse 6. Was David going to stand upon his reputation.
And his dignity. No he's man enough. With his tender heart. To confess his sins.
To his men. He said to his men. God forbid that I should do this thing. Unto my Lord Jehovah's anointed.
To put forth my hand against him. Seeing he is the Lord's anointed. So David checked his men with these words. And suffered them not to rise against Saul.
And Saul rose up out of the cave. And went on his way. What a picture. Of a tender heart.
No sooner has his knife. Done the work. Was but a cutting off of the hem. Of his heart.
Because it was a tender. Now I want you to turn over to 2 Samuel. Same man. Now the king.
Years richer in experience. Richer in the privileges of grace. In the confer of God's goodness. And mercy.
And the triumphs of his military conquest. A man who has lived under the canopy. Of the smile of God. The psalmist of Israel.
Who has been an organ of direct revelation. To give us the psalms. Many of them. Mighty king in Israel.
And if this were not the word of God. We'd say surely someone wrote this. And inserted it to slander that good and godly man. For we read in 2 Samuel chapter 11.
These sad words. Came to pass at the return of the year. At the time when kings go out to battle. That David said.
Joab and his servants with him. And all Israel. And they destroyed the children of Ammon. And besieged Rabbah.
But David tarried at Jerusalem. And would God the next verse read. But his heart smote him. This was not a time for kings to be tarried.
At Jerusalem. It was the time for kings. To go forth to wars. Of physical debilitation.
And the passing of the years. Had not so eroded his vital powers. That it was no longer for him. To be leading his armies.
For whatever reason. When kings go forth to war. And when God's kings should be warring. In God's name.
But his violence. And his heart smote him. And repenting. He girded on his armor.
And his armor bearers. Went forth to battle. But it doesn't say that. Verse 2.
And it came to pass at eventide. That David arose from off his bed. What in the world is he doing. Lying in bed till evening.
Walked upon the roof of the king's house. And from the roof he saw a woman bathing. And would God the text then said. And his heart smote him.
That he should have looked. Upon another woman long enough. Once he saw that she was naked. And bathing.
Would God that a tender heart. Would have caused him. To be smitten. But he didn't.
And so the scripture says. The woman was very beautiful. To look upon. And lust began to burn.
And would God the next part. Of that verse had said. And his heart smote him. But it didn't.
And David sent and inquired. After the woman. He already had six wives. He was already a gourmet.
A gourmet of fine flesh. Why did he need another. Course on his table. He sent and inquired after the woman.
And one said is not this Bathsheba. The wife. The wife. The daughter I'm sorry of Eliam.
The wife of Uriah the. And the moment he heard wife. Coveted another man's wife. But it doesn't say that.
Verse four. And David sent messengers. And took her. And when she came in unto him.
And he lay with her. For she was purified. From her uncleanness. And she returned to her house.
Would God the next text said. And his heart. And that his heart smote him. And the woman conceived.
And she sent and told David. And said I am with child. Would God that it then read. And his heart smote him.
His heart smote him. The swelling. His heart had been smitten. But no.
What does he do. He sends for the woman's husband. Calls him back from the battle. Says have a little hour and hour.
Go down and enjoy. The benefits of home. And bed. And intimacy with your wife.
And you know what that noble man said. Look at verse eleven. And Uriah said unto David. The ark in Israel and Judah.
Things that at one time were David's most precious commodities. The ark. The symbol of God's special presence. And Israel.
And Judah. Abide in booths. And my Lord Joab and the servants of my Lord are encamped in the open field. Here is a man who was a native Hittite.
That is one of the pagans who has become obviously an Israelite in heart. And from the mouth of this converted pagan. David hears these words. The ark.
Israel. Judah in booths. Joab and the servants in camp. Shall I go to my house.
And eat and drink and lie with my wife. As you live and your soul lives. I will not do this thing. Oh dear people if anything should have smitten David.
Think of those words. Here is a man who says I will not even enjoy the soldiers and leaders. David's heart should have smitten him. No record that his heart smote him.
He then stoops to trying to get Uriah drunk. Take note. He knows that selfishness. Knows that self-control.
And drunkenness. Never are found together. So he says if I can get enough alcohol in his brain. I will neutralize these noble convictions.
This is David. The man whose heart smote him. When he just cut a little cloth off the king in a cave. Now he is calculating to get a man drunk.
So that the man to be submerged. So that he will go home and have intercourse with his wife. And when he sees her belly begin to swell. He can say well that one night stand was productive.
That is David's mind at this point. You are beginning to feel sick. You are beginning to feel sick. Then my friends you read on to the end.
And if you can keep down your breakfast. Here is the height of it. David's plot fails. So then he sends a message.
Message up to the front of the battlefield saying hey. Take this fellow Uriah. Put him up in the front ranks. And we will make sure that he is taken quote.
In the hard providence of war. You win some you lose some. And after the messenger comes back. And tells him that his plot has succeeded.
Will you look at his calloused response in verse 25. Then David said unto the messenger. Thus shall you say unto Joab. Let not this thing displease you.
For the sword devours one as well as another. Make your battle more strong against the city. And overthrow it and encourage him. You see what he is saying.
Blind fate orders. Some are taken. Some come back alive. So Uriah was taken.
Dear people. How did this happen? Is this the same man that went in the cave. And stands as a sentinel between them and Saul.
Now he becomes a calculating shirker of his duty. A calculating adulterer. A calculating murderer. And then for all intents.
He becomes a confessing pagan. Who says the world is run by chance. How in God's name. Did he get from there to there.
The Peril of Resisting the 'Smite' and the Weariness of Tenderness
I'll tell you how. Listen to me. I'll tell you how. He thought the first time his heart smote him.
He could resist the smite. And not build a callous on the folds of his heart. And the second time. And the third.
And I don't know what the instances were. I have often studied the narrative. And I have some tentative convictions. As to what those incidents were that led to this hardness.
And I have not time to go into what is but my own theory of the skimpy biblical data. But this much is clear. If the first time after the cave. When David's heart smote him for that sin.
Just watching one TV program. That he knew was borderline in its purity. And his heart smote him. But he said oh well.
You know. No harm. Just looking at one magazine. And several pages on it.
That cause. If someone could have come to David. And said David. Do you know that a few years from now.
You will. Be rising from your bed at eventide. You will look upon another woman. Your lust will burn.
And your burning lust will lead to adultery. And your adultery will lead to a vicious horrible cover up plot. And the cover up plot when failing. David would have.
What are you talking about? You don't know me. The problem was David forgot to know himself. Folks I didn't write this.
And that ain't written. So you and I can throw stones at David. It's written. First Corinthians 10.
For our admonition. Let him that thinks he stand. Take heed. Lest he fall.
What is the anatomy of a man of God? When we focus on. We will find that it's not only a well. But it is in every instance.
A heart continues. That word. Rises upon the conscience. And deals with it.
And deals as ruthlessly. Another man. As it would deal with a demonic thought. Of laying with another man's wife.
Or murdering another man. To cover up one's own sin. Now you market men preparing for the ministry. If you aren't ready for a lifetime.
Of dealing that way with your heart. To keep it tender. Bail out will you? Because when you fall.
You won't become a public scandal. To the whole church of Christ. But you will fall. It's only a matter of time.
And I say to you God's people. This doesn't just apply to David. If with all his privileges. And all his light.
And all his understanding. And all his experience. He could stoop so low. What will happen to you if you go on playing with sin?
That's why some of you are such a massive inconsistency. You've got your checklist of right and wrong. But in matters that are so evident to anyone. With a conscience made sensitive by the word of God.
What you say and do. In matters of your life. Don't feel it. Why?
Because you've got such a track record. Of resisting the word of God. When it's read in this place. When it's preached in this place.
You have become the most clever, skillful person. In pulling out the arrows. Breaking them over the knee of your pride. And going as likely as you were when you came.
And one day. It's going to be manifest unto all. Keeping a tender heart my friends is wearisome. In my youth.
I was naive to think. That as I got older. The struggles would get fewer. But I got news for you.
I got news for you. This wasn't any boy. Seventeen recorded in second Samuel chapter eleven. This was a man probably in his late fifties.
Maybe that's why. The passage scares me. Dear people when you pray for your elders. What do you want to pray for them?
Lord make them all sweet and nice. So they never step on our sins. No. Lord.
Keep them. With tender hearts. At any cost. Well I must bring this to a close.
Characteristic 3: An Increasingly Loving, Responsive, and Vulnerable Heart
Let me at least give you the third heading. The heart of a man of God. Is an increasingly loving. Responsive.
And vulnerable heart. You men aspiring to the ministry. Read periodically first Corinthians thirteen. If I speak with the tongues of men and angels.
And have not love. I'm nothing. If God were to combine in you. All of the passion of a Whitfield.
The eloquence of a Spurgeon. The brilliant analytical mind of a Jonathan Edwards. And the thunderous voice of a Chalmers. Roll it all together in one preacher.
Hold down a pulpit and preach to pact. Auditoriums for fifty years. And if it doesn't flow out of love. God says.
It's like clanging on a. Top of a garbage can. That's what God says. And if you're to be a man of God.
You must have an increasingly loving. Responsive. And vulnerable heart. And what do I mean by.
Responsive and vulnerable. There's need everywhere people. And the scripture says the moment we face spiritual need. And temporal need.
We do one of two things. First John 317. He that seeth his brother have need. And shuts up.
The bowels of compassion from him. How dwelleth the love of God in him. The moment you perceive need. Remember the eyes of the man of God.
They see reality. They see men in their true need. And the moment it's seen. A demand is made upon the heart.
It must either. Move out in appropriate action. And it always costs to love. Or it tightens itself.
In a kind of self-defense mechanism. Called in the Bible. Shutting up the bowels of compassion. And right in this second letter.
To the Corinthians. We'll have some of the most vivid illustrations. Of a man who had an increasingly loving. Responsive and vulnerable heart.
One of the most moving passages. In all of this book. We'll come to in chapter six. God willing.
Where Paul says. Oh Corinthians. Our mouth is opened. And enlarged.
Our heart is enlarged. Though we have been squeezed out of your heart. You're not squeezed out of mine. Though my love is unrequited.
And he goes on further to say. Though the more I love. The less I be loved. That's what it is to be vulnerable.
And I tell you. Pastoral love is a very vulnerable thing. When you can say in the secret place. Before God.
God thou knowest. With all my sin and failure. I live. I labor.
I pray. I preach. I counsel. I shepherd.
With one passion. To take as many people to heaven. As much like your son. As your grace will make them.
And then. To have the very people. For whom you're pouring out your life. When you know.
God's given you. The ability. That humanly speaking. Could have made you wealthy.
Could have made you. At least. Somewhat well known. In certain circles.
And when before God. You know. You've turned your back upon all of that. To spend.
In business. You know. You know. You've turned your back upon all of that.
To spend. In business. You know. You've turned your back upon all of that.
To spend. In business. To spend. In business.
To spend. In business. For the good of men's souls. And you reach out the bread of life.
To feed them. And they snap at your fingers. You reach out your physician's fingers. To cut out their cancers.
And they cut off. Your hand. And call you harsh. And cruel.
And unfeeling. My friend. You'll never stay. In the ministry.
Unless you have a heart. That is an increasingly loving. Responsive. And vulnerable heart.
That's all. I'll say about it. Because our time is gone.
Call to Prayer and Warning to the Unconverted
Anyone want to stay in the academy?
No resignations accepted today.
But you better have dealings at the throne of grace.
Far better that God would turn out one man of God every four years than 15 play preachers a year.
God's problem has never been the number. Just the opposite. When he would conquer through his servant Gideon, he says, you've got too many. Tell all the sissies to go home.
And that thinned out the ranks by about 50%. He says, still too many.
The Lord says, got down 300? Well, looks like now if I get a victory, everyone will have sense enough to know I did it. That's always God's way. That's always God's way.
That's always his way. And oh, you dear men in the academy, cry to God to give you this kind of a heart. A well-guarded and constantly kept heart. A heart continually kept sensitive.
And a heart suffused with love. A heart that is vulnerable and self-giving.
And it wouldn't hurt for every one of you who name the name of Christ to have a heart like that. And if you've sat here this morning and you've said, well, you know, for the life of me, I can't figure out that preacher. I mean, he's talking about little piddling things in a heart, like a little jealousy, a little lust. I mean, we're all just human, my friend.
Listen to me. If you've been thinking that way, you know what your problem is? You're lost as the devil. Because you've never seen your sin in the light of God's.
Holiness and in the light of the cross of Christ. And once you see your sin in the light of the law of God and the cross of Christ, you'll never think anyone's too careful to guard his heart from sin. Sin is that ugly moral commodity that is an affront to God's holiness that caused the incarnate God to waltz in his own blood and be anointed in the sea of God's wrath. And you're going to call it a little thing?
Not when the Holy Ghost gives you eyes to see your sin.
So if you've sat here and said, huh, what a bunch of foolishness, my friend, hear me. You're the fool. For the scripture says fools make a mock at sin.
True Christians take their sin seriously because God takes it seriously now and in the day of judgment. Flee to Christ. Flee to Christ. Ask him to give you eyes to see.
What your sin is and what he has done for needy sinners. And may we all with renewed understanding pray, God, give this generation what it most desperately needs, but most viciously resists an army of true men of God with the kind of head we've described, the kind of eyes, the kind of ears and the kind of heart upon which we've meditated today. Let us pray.
Our father. We thank you for your word.
We confess as we study it together, our renewed confidence that no man would have ever written such a book. Oh, how it finds us and searches us. And we pray that this day the Holy Spirit will seal it to every heart and that not a one of us will pillow our heads tonight until we've had dealings with you in the light of your word. Oh, Lord, in mercy.
In mercy, in mercy, give to every man in the academy this kind of a heart by whatever secret discipline you choose through whatever path of suffering. Oh, God, give us men with hearts like this. You can give them, Lord, and we ask you to do it. Hear then our prayer.
May your blessing rest upon us as we leave this place. We plead in Jesus name. Amen.
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Passages Expounded
This verse serves as the foundational text for the first characteristic of a man of God's heart: the necessity of guarding it diligently.
The account of King Josiah's tender heart and immediate response to God's word is expounded as the primary illustration of a continually tender heart.
David's initial tender heart is contrasted with his later hardened heart in 2 Samuel 11, serving as a cautionary tale about losing tenderness.
David's fall into adultery and murder is presented as a vivid, extended example of the devastating consequences of a heart that ceases to be tender and guarded.
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