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Proverbs 6:16-19

Major Sins of the Tongue: Lying

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Pastor Martin identifies lying as the sin of the tongue most frequently addressed in Scripture, most revealing of the heart's true condition, most destructive to human relationships, and most directly exposed to divine judgment. He defines lying precisely as any deliberately made false statement intended to deceive, distinguishing it from honest mistakes, before tracing God's unified condemnation of lying from Leviticus through Revelation. The sermon demonstrates that lying is an abomination to God on a level with sexual perversion, and that a habitual liar bears the spiritual parentage of the devil. Martin closes with God's twofold remedy: for the unregenerate liar, repentance and faith toward Christ; for the believing liar, confronting the root sins of self-protection and self-promotion and claiming union-with-Christ grace to mortify the tongue.

Primary Texts

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Proverbs 6:16-19 Read before the opening prayer as the sermon's anchor text; the listing of a lying tongue among God's seven abominations frames the entire message.
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Genesis 3:1-5 The first lie in history, used to confirm the definition of lying as deliberate, knowing misrepresentation intended to deceive — Satan's 'You shall not surely die' as the paradigm case.
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Revelation 21:8 The climactic NT text showing that all liars face the lake of fire, serving as the sternest possible warning and evangelistic call in the closing section.

Outline 7 sections · 72 min

  1. Introduction: The Sermon Series and Setting Up the Questions 0:03
  2. Question 1: What Does It Mean to Lie? 10:52
  3. Question 2: How Does God Look Upon Lying? — Old Testament Survey 19:44
  4. Question 2 Continued: New Testament Survey 41:51
  5. Question 3: What Is God's Attitude and Action Toward the Liar? 52:19
  6. Question 4: God's Remedy for the Sin of Lying 58:41
  7. Closing Prayer 70:22

Key Quotes

“For the answer to all four of those questions is, indeed, the sin of lying.”
“He feels the same way when your lips speak lies. You become so contrary to what he is and what you were made for.”
“My ecclesia, my called-out assembly will be a people that reflect my character as the God of truth. Lies will not be tolerated in my special presence.”
“You've become so adept at lying, it's as easy for you as breathing. You can breathe out your lies. God hates your lies and the lips and the person who has the lips of the liar.”
“You are never more like the devil than when you lie. And you prove your spiritual parentage when lying is a way of life to you.”
“Love of self and the lack of love to others are the two main tap roots of the besetting sin of lying. In the life of a believer.”
“And I will say, God, I'd rather die than use this tongue to speak a lie. And if speaking the truth means I must die, I've just chased up to heaven earlier than I thought I'd go there.”
“I speak as a parent who knows nothing, nothing is more destructive of a meaningful parent-child relationship than dishonesty.”

Applications

Believers

  • Take the Ananias and Sapphira account as a permanent declaration of God's standard for the church: do not mistake God's patient long-suffering today for any relaxation of his holy abomination against lying lips in his assembly.

Parents & families

  • If covered lies are building a wall between you and your parents, recognize that wall for what it is. He that covers his sins shall not prosper. Come clean today — restoration and new levels of intimacy are waiting on the other side of honest confession.

All listeners

  • Use the precise definition of lying to audit your own speech: a deliberately made false statement is a lie; an honest mistake is not. Stop dismissing conscious deceptions as mere personality quirks or social lubricant.
  • Resist conformity to a culture that has normalized lying. The average American adult tells more than a dozen lies daily. Scripture calls believers to transformation by the renewing of the mind, not to drift with a seared-conscience society.
  • Receive both sides of Proverbs 12:22: lying lips are an abomination to God, but truthful lips are his delight. Let the promise of being God's delight motivate truth-telling even when telling the truth costs you something.
  • If you are living a lie of silence — hiding infidelity, financial dishonesty, or moral failure from your spouse — find the moral courage to confess today. Continuing silence is itself a form of lying, and God smiles on honest confession even when it breaks hearts.
  • Before lying today, pause and reckon the full cost: 'I lie, I provoke the hatred of God.' A child of God must not trifle with provoking the hatred of the Father who loves them.
  • If lying is the reigning pattern of your life, face it as conclusive evidence of an unregenerate heart. Do not comfort yourself with Christian upbringing or church attendance. Repent, and cast yourself on the grace of Christ who pardons all sins including hundreds of lies.
  • Diagnose the specific root of your lying: Is it self-protection — avoiding the consequences of truth? Self-promotion — projecting a better image? Or envy — hurting someone by misrepresentation? Deal with the root and the fruit will dry up.
  • Claim your union with Christ as the ground for mortifying the lying tongue. You have died to the reign of sin and been raised to newness of life. Reckon yourself dead to sin, present your tongue as an instrument of righteousness, and resolve to die rather than lie.
  • After repenting of specific lies, make restitution. The grace to overcome lying includes the grace to go back, correct the record, restore the relationship, and undo the damage your words have done. You must. You've got to.

A full transcript is available on the tab. 217 paragraphs, roughly 72 minutes.

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